What is abuse?

Abuse isn't always visible, and it isn't always physical. Whatever form it takes, abuse is about one person exerting power over another to hurt or control them. It can happen in any relationship, regardless of age, gender, or background. 

Domestic abuse is any act or threatened act that intimidates a family member by creating a reasonable fear of property damage or injury to a family member. 

Domestic abuse may include but is not limited to the following:

If any of this sounds familiar, it isn't your fault, and you don't have to figure it out alone. Rowan House Society's 24-Hour Support Line offers free, confidential help by phone or text, along with outreach and education for anyone in our communities affected by domestic violence and abuse.

The working definition of abuse on this page was developed using a combination of definitions used by the Government of Canada, the Government of Alberta, and the Protection Against Family Violence Act.